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Monday 21 April 2014

4 sexual partners who will probably end up cheating on you

There are signs that men can exhibit in bed that may give you a glimpse into whether they are going to be someone who cheats on your or not. They are not overly obvious signs but they are little cues that could tell you that you are with someone who may stray.

A study was conducted at the University of North Carolina, Chapel Hill, which asked 123 couples that were married about narcissism in the bedroom. They would survey they every six months for the first four years of their marriage and found that a person was more likely to cheat within those first four years if they displayed traits of sexual narcissism. Here are the four biggest indicators:

1. Missing sexual empathy:

Partners who don’t seem to care about what their partner wants or needs in bed is an example of sexual empathy. They are usually the ones that do not think twice about getting 0ral sex but refuse to reciprocate. They often finish and then do not care if their partner is satisfied or not. Once they are done, they are done.

2. Entitlement:

This partner is the one who believes that even if you are not in the mood and they are things are still going to happen. They think that they should get it whenever they want whether their partner wants to or not.

3. Arrogance of skills:

When a partner thinks that they are God’s gift to everyone in bed they may be someone who wants to exploit that to other people, not just their partner.

4. Sexual exploitation:


When a partner thinks that they can make you do whatever they want in bed, this is displaying a narcissistic s*xual trait. They think that they can manipulate you into doing anything that they want.

Parents kept daughter in cage for 3 years because she suffered from convulsion

Channels TV tells a story of how parents in Bayelsa state kept their 16 year old daughter in a cage for three years because she suffered from convulsion. Read full story below...

A regular visitor to the home of Mr Selekeowei Olokumo, in Yenagoa, Bayelsa State, Nigeria’s South-South region, would probably have noticed a small make shift building directly opposite his one bedroom apartment which could easily be mistaken for a generator cage.

To think it is a place where he stores his old and worn out property would not be out of place, as it was haphazardly built with wood and carton on what could be seen as a semi refuse dump site.

It was a feeling of shock when Channels Television realised that it was not for keeping his generator or other items but where his 16-year old daughter, Blessing Olokumo, had called home for almost three years.
Blessing is the 6th out of the 16 children of Mr and Mrs Olokumo; a twin who has no relationship with her twin sister, not because her twin sister was dead. she is simply ashamed of being associated with her.

She is not leprous, neither is she affected by any contagious disease. She is just a child who had convulsion when she was three years old and was not properly monitored by the medical doctors, so instead of outgrowing it as most children of her age would probably have done, she has since been battling with the condition.

One would expect her parents to be sympathetic to her plight and treat her with more care and attention, but the reverse has been the case, as Blessing is being treated with utmost disdain by those who are supposed to love her more.

She has been tagged the evil child, accused of being responsible for the death of her immediate siblings who were also twin girls. She has been abandoned by her parents in a cage for almost three years and left to God to decide her fate.

Luck smiled on Blessing when members of the Mary Slessor Twin Foundation, a foundation focused on the welfare of people of multiple birth heard of her plight and decided to intervene. She was rescued on January 25, 2014 in a very bad condition and has since been on admission at the Niger Delta Teaching Hospital, Okolobiri.

Blessing’s father, a security guard at the Niger Delta Teaching Hospital, Okolobiri was asked how he could do such to his flesh and blood. He simply stated without remorse that he was tired of looking after the girl.

“Why I kept her in this house is that when she defecates and urinates, she soils the whole house when the mother and myself are not around. So there’s nothing I can do again. I now isolated her from the apartment I’m living”, he said.

While one may be tempted to call her dad wicked, heartless and much more, one wonders what words would be adequate to describe her mother, Mrs Bernice Olokumo, a petty trader, who accused her daughter of being responsible for the death of her younger siblings who were also twin girls.

On her relationship with her daughter, she simply said she was afraid of her and appeals to the Government and other people of goodwill to come take Blessing from them, as they were tired of fending for their own child.

To ascertain the present condition of Blessing, Channels Television paid her a visit at the hospital and met a transformed girl. Gone were the tiny frame, bony knee and sunken eyes. A cheerful, robust and well fed child was what she had become, after just three months of love and care.

On the way forward regarding her medical bills and her future, efforts to speak with the doctors proved futile, but the President of the Mary Slessor Twin Foundation, Mr Ebitei Roberts, spoke.
“What we are working on is that after now when she is discharged, we want to take her to maybe a motherless babies’ home or any special school to rehabilitate her. With the way we are seeing things, if we take her back to the family, they will take her back to where she was and we don’t want that to repeat itself because we have spent money.”

The foundation has since lodged a formal complaint with the Police and the welfare department of the State Ministry of Women Affairs. The complaints list criminal charges of child abduction, inhuman treatment, child molestation and failure to enrol a child for proper education.

Culled from Channels TV

Seven more girls escape from Boko Haram captivity

Seven more girls out of the 100+ girls that were abducted from Government Girls Secondary School Chibok, Borno state on April 14th have escaped the Boko Harem den. According to the Borno State Governor, Kashim Settima who revealed this during his Easter message to the state, the girls escaped between Saturday night and Sunday evening and have reunited with their families. He said out of the 129 that were kidnapped, 52 have reunited with their families while 77 are yet to be found.

 

The Governor described the last one week as the most troubling of his tenure since he assumed office

"I have seen very serious moments since I became the Governor of Borno State in 2011 at a period of insurgent crisis. I have seen many innocent lives lost for no reason and I mourn every life lost with empathy and high sense of responsibility. But the last one week have been my worst days as a Governor and even the worst in my life. I am troubled as a father, as a leader and as a politician. So much is being done by rescue teams. There is very high commitment on the part of the Federal, State and Chibok local government authorities in working for the freedom of these innocent daughters of ours that are future leaders and mothers of future leaders” he said.

Chris Brown's bodyguard found guilty in assault case

This is not good, mehn. Chris Brown's bodyguard Christopher Hollosy, was found guilty today on assault charges for punching a fan in the face who tried to take a picture with Chris in front of the W Hotel in Washington D.C. back in October 2013.

Chris Brown's trial for the same assault is expected to begin later today.

Davido shows off his new ride, the 2014 Mercedes Benz S63 AMG

This new car is worth over N20million. This is just a few months after he bought a Mercedes Benz G-Wagon worth over N30million. Wow!

"No rumour or gossip can break our marriage" - Annie Idibia

In a recent interview with City People, Annie Idibia is quoted as saying no amount of gossip can ruin her marriage with the love of her life, 2face Idibia

"My husband and I have already made up our minds that no gist or gossip would come between us. We laugh over the controversy. Our friends and families are even more worried for us but we are fine and don't bother about the gossip."
That's the spirit!!!

Sunday 20 April 2014

The full list of records broken by Moyes as Manchester United boss

The Red Devils have struggled this season, with the Scot having picked up one ignominious first after another as his first season at Old Trafford continues on a downward curve
David Moyes has overseen a record-breaking season at Manchester United - but for all the wrong reasons.

Sunday's defeat at Everton means that the defending champions cannot finish in the top four this season, the first time they have failed to qualify for the Champions League since 1995.

The result also gifted the Toffees their first league double over United since 1969-70.

The below list was first published on Goal following the 3-0 home defeat to Manchester City at the end of March, but has been updated to reflect yet more unwanted records from a nightmare season.


MOYES'S UNWANTED RECORDS AT MAN UTD


United are guaranteed to finish the season with their lowest ever Premier League points tally
United fail to qualify for the Champions League for the first time since 1995
United's worst home league form for over a decade
Suffered three defeats in a row for the first time since 2001 this season
Eliminated in the FA Cup third round - something which happened just once under Ferguson
First ever home defeat to Swansea this term
First home defeat to Newcastle since 1972
First home defeat to West Brom since 1978
First league defeat to Stoke since 1984
First time United conceded a first-minute goal in the Premier League - Dzeko for City
First time Man City & Liverpool have beaten United home & away since Premier League's inception
First time Everton, Man City & Liverpool have beaten United home & away since Premier League's inception
First time Everton have beaten United home and away since 1969-70
First time Everton & Liverpool have ever done a league double over United in the same season